Selena shared the timeline of her relationship with Benny. Discover all the details about their romance.
Selena Gomez loves her husband, Benny Blanco, like a romantic melody!The Only Murders in the BuildingStar married a music producer two years into their relationship. Keep reading for a full timeline of Selena and Benny’s relationship!
October 2015
Selena and Benny began collaborating on her second studio album,Revival, in 2015. Benny was acknowledged for her contributions to the tracks “Kill Em With Kindness” and “Same Old Love.”
March 2019
The two worked together once more on Selena’s song “I Can’t Get Enough.” Considering their professional connection, it seemed the two built a strong friendship over time.
June 2023
Based on Selena’s public statement suggesting she and Benny had been in a relationship for “six months,” this implies their romantic journey started in June 2023. The artist known for “Single Soon” verified this timeline in a December 2023 Instagram comment while responding to a fan who appeared to be referencing an earlier comment Selena made onJustin BieberHis Instagram account several years ago.
If you can’t deal with the negativity, then stop sharing photos of your boyfriend lol — it should be special between the two of you. Don’t be upset with your fans. They love you [sic],” an Instagram comment read, to which Selena replied, “Not angry. It’s been six months, babe. I’ll always stand up for my friends, family, and fans until the day I die [sic].
October 2023
Benny was present at Selena’s brand Rare Beauty’s Impact Fund Benefit, which supports youth mental health in Los Angeles.
November 2023
A month prior to publicly announcing their relationship, Selena acknowledged Benny in an Instagram Stories post to celebrate his cookbook,Open Wide.
“One of my favorites releasing a cookbook,” she was said to have written alongside a photo of Benny’s book.
That month, the celebrity Instagram page Pop Factions stated that Selena and Benny were in a relationship. The account also posted information about Selena’s mother,Mandy Teefy, had been following Benny on Instagram.
December 2023
Selena officially confirmed her relationship with Benny. The former Disney Channel star posted a black and white image on her Instagram Stories showing herself leaning on someone believed to be Benny. She also replied to several fans’ comments on an Instagram fan page. In one reply, Selena wrote, “He is my absolute everything in my heart.”
January 2024
Selena took Benny to the Golden Globe Awards, and she also posted a passionate photo of the two of them kissing after the event. Even though she didn’t receive the award for Best Actress in a Musical or Comedy series, she wrote “I won” on the cute picture.
February 2024
While conversing with Apple Music’sZane Lowe, Selena shared the inspiration for her song “Love On” and admitted she felt “most secure” in her relationship with Benny.
Without going into too much detail, I believe it’s very important to meet someone who respects you,” she explained. “And I think it’s also nice to rely on someone who understands the world I live in. But overall, it’s the safest I’ve felt, and it’s been really wonderful. I’ve only gotten better from it, so it’s amazing.
March 2024
Benny shared a little about his and Selena’s home life while promoting his cookbook during a TalkShopLive event.
We always cook together; it’s not just for her show,” the music expert said. “She’s an amazing cook. We have a lot of fun. All we do is eat.
Not only that, but Benny also mentioned that he brought Selena her favorite soup to the set ofOnly Murders in the Building.
November 2024
Although Selena and Benny have not officially confirmed an engagement, the photo has led to speculation, with many believing the pink heart emoji could be hiding an engagement ring. An X account named Deux Moi stated that the couple is engaged. Nevertheless, no other media outlet has verified this information.
December 2024
In December 2024, Selena revealed her engagement via an Instagram update. The initial image displayed her diamond ring on her well-groomed hand, paired with the message, “Forever starts now.” The post also featured images of what looked like a romantic picnic, her happy expression, and a tender moment with her future husband.
August 2025
Selena had her bachelorette party during the summer of 2025 with several close friends, and Benny was very supportive of the event. The Hulu star posted a series of photos on Instagram, which featured images of silver balloons spelling “Mrs. Levin” (Benny’s actual name is Benjamin Levin), a picture of Selena in a white LSPACE sunrise shell bikini top, and another all-white outfit that included a veil reading, “Bride to Be.” The bachelorette celebration took place in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico.
Benny responded to Selena’s post using a heart eyes emoji.
September 2025
Selena and Benny tied the knot on September 27, 2025, and the newlyweds posted pictures from their memorable day on Instagram.
